5 important points to know, before come to Japan!!

Hi, guys!!

Today, I write about how to get happiness here in Japan!!

Sadly, many foreigners are failed to have happy life in Japan completely!!

However all Japanese have gentle hearts to share our happiness with you...

So...Please do not hesitate to come over!!






Why have I choose this complicated subjects??

Well...I had a chance to hear massive complaining about being in Japan by some foreigners...

Finally they could not accept to live in Japan anymore and decided to go back to their countries with enormous discontent feelings!!

Their complains were...

1, Ruthless attitude

2, Obscure conversation

3, Poker face

4, No enthusiasm (Party pooper)

5, Always be strict at anytime... bla, bla, bla!!

Well, I can strongly be consent of the above, if I take only the meanings that explaining the typical image of Japanese citizens but...

I wonder if these are correct or not, When I consider the actual situations of each complains!!

Ahaha...this article is becoming a perverse complicated content again!!

May be getting lost in a mysterious complicated as Christopher Edward Nolan's movie, "INCEPTION" like, ordinary Japanese people's minds (^^)/



Therefore...Be aware of reading more!!





From the point of foreigner's view, you definitely realise to know that their complaining are correct!!

Because they are mature enough(around or more than 30 years old) to know how to behave themselves even at the different society!!

However, they have failed...I think you have deep interest to know what is the reason of their failure??

Well...From "Japanese Point of view" is clear and very simple!!

They had no ideas of being themselves in different cultural society and had no motives to have patient, also had no persistent effort making for to live in Japan!!

So...They had behaved like in their countries, cause of that, had made themselves into a deep pitfall!!

They had spilled out their disappointment feeling against Japanese before they left our country were...

1, The most of Japanese people are not accepted him(her)

2, Tender and kind but people never ever familiar with them

Very sad...it is like a Sofia Carmina Coppola's movie, "Lost in translation"!!



Ahaha...puzzling more??

Sorry...I just kidding, but not so far, isn't it??





Anyway...Foreigners, especially White people who come to Japan are behaving same way at their countries!!

Do same, act same, think same and behave same...

That behaviour is as same as forcing their Japanese friends to obey other country's common rules!!

Feel strange??

But these are very common style of foreigners, living in Japan right now!!

If you have a time to go Roppongi (六本木: Famous night spot in Tokyo)...You probably have shock to see, so many foreigners gathering along only with own nation, wondering around for idiotic one night love like a beast!!

These are not common at other popular towns, but happens only at Roppongi every day!!

Who is contaminating silent atmosphere??

Also the bad things about this is the most of foreigners think that stretch the images of Roppongi to entire general Japanese images!!

Japanese girls are very easy for a night!!

then...

They obey like a slave in any orders!!

so...

Foreigners are the kings who reign over stupid Japanese citizens!!

This is the truth of real minds can be seen especially to the White people!!

It is insult and annoying...and feel very sad!!

Therefore, the foreigners who influenced at this haughty ideas...they become much having prejudice and arrogance against Japanese people!!

This problem become the cause of "Racism"!!

Anyway...People are forced to make ranking against other people, is the Global standards of educational thought from primary school time...so, "Racism" is the fundamental of human beings to avoid the mind of indelible exclusive shameful conducts...Maybe? (;_;)

Sorry...I have crossed the line of being easy going explanation!!

Ahaha...but this prejudice is also made by our servility attitude too!!

We can not blame on them to be biased people as member of Japanese citizens!!

Take time...explain us more...be patient...untill they recover pure eyes against us...

So...doesn't matter ~(^^)~

Also I have to mention you that the most of the girls wandering around Roppongi are as like Japanese girls but... sometimes coming from other countries...maybe??





Sorry for long explanations as usual (^^)/

Back to the main theme, "How to deal with Japanese society"!!

Well...it is very simple and easy!!

Just pursue the below 5 points!!

Before applying these points, The important points which you have to restructure your mind to...

1, Throw away your common sense

2, Try what they say to do so, even if you do not fully consented with

3, Don't underestimate people, treat as same human beings

4, Be honest to any happenings

Are you ready to grasp the points??

Here we go~~~~(^^)/





"Be on time" is very important point that the most of foreigners can not to do in Japan!!

If you are not punctual...You will immediately lost reliance from Japanese!!

Well...The most of Foreigners do not feel the lost reliance from Japanese would never known but...

Suddenly they felt that their friends are not trust on you!!

It is because...

"Be on time(Punctual on time)" has the meaning of...

"Punctual on time"...You do not want your friends to spend wasting time...You do care about them...You are honest person!!

In the statistics data...Japanese people's allowance durations are...

Japanese women are...

・3min: Feel late

・5min: Feel insulting

・10min: getting angry

・30min: fed up with you and go back home

Japanese men are...

・5min: Feel late

・15min: Feel insulting

・30min: getting angry

・60min: fed up with you and go back home

From this simple data shows Japan has advanced female supremacy society!!

Why people of other nations have an opposite opinion against us??

Ahaha...People's have rights to think freely!!

Hence...their misunderstanding are our faults too...

So...doesn't matter (^^)/

Oops...went wrong way again...So, what I realy want to explain is...

Do not be late!!





People came to Japan sometimes makes too much excuses for to protect themselves!!

Well...Well..Well...You do not need to show more embarrassing scene!!

If you have done something wrong...you have to do is just apologise!!

You may say...

Gomen nasai = Sorry

Sumimasen = Excuse me

or...

Sumimasendesita = I'm very sorry

or...

Taihen mousiwake gozaimasen desita = I'm terribly sorry

If you make apologise, they forgive you right away...This is the benefit of being a foreigner, Isn't it??

And to the people who stated as apologizing is the same meaning of defeated to others...

Apologize to others is not the same as defeated to others, it is a superb miracle word to reconsider your attitude and mind, also has the benefit of getting others trust back again too!!

Hence here at this chapter, I strongly mentioning you "apologise to someone" is very common and no need to pretend as you are strong and correct at anytime, here in Japan!!

”Be natural” is the way of living in Japan!!

If you do wrong...just apologise...and people make a mistake...forgive their mistakes with full smile!!




As I have explained at What is the nature of real Japanese ... Japanese do not like to make arguments with others!!

So...If you have any other opinions, you should not show your logic to others!!

The most of Japanese are try to comprehend to stand on both side, so you maight feel that they are soooooooo~~ obscure, and sometime feel that you are insulted!!

No...No...No...vagueness is our typical trend of cultural difference!!

All Japanese recognise, Argument equal to Fighting!!

So...Do not be upset!!

Since they like you, they do not want to fight with you!!

If you realise to know this point...You may feel creepy not to speak what you want to say!!

In that time...have argument with other foreigners in Roppongi or Shibuya (^^)/





As I have explained above...Sometimes foreigners underestimate Japanese (a lot)!!

Recognize you and Japanese are different but same human beings!!

I'm little bit tired of writing a long descriptions...

Ahaha...I have explained at the above already too...

So...You do not need to have more explanations on this issue!!





Eventually...the keyword of How to deal with Japanese society is...

Be smile all time!!

If you focus on nasty terrible things all day...You never ever be happy!!

Think optimistic way will bring you the real happy life!!

So...everyone...Smile!!

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★Japanese Pop Musics.

NMB48, "Boku Datte Naichauyo"（僕だって泣いちゃうよ）with pronunciations and translations.

Keyakizaka46(欅坂46),"Futari Saison"(二人セゾン) with pronunciations and translations.

SKE48, "1234 Yoroshiku"（1234よろしく）with pronunciations and trasnlations.

AKB48, "Sakura No Ki Ni Narou"(桜の木になろう) with translations and pronunciations.

AKB48, "Heavy Rotation" （ヘビーローテーション）with Translation and Pronunciation.

AKB48, "Chance No Junban" with Translations and pronunciations.

AKB48, "Suzukake No Ki No Michi de" with pronunciations and translations.

AKB48, "Kimi Wa Melody"（君はメロディー）, try to sing in Japanese pronunciations.

AKB48, "Shiawase Wo Wakenasai"（幸せをわけなさい）with pronunciations and meaning of the song.

AKB48, "Sakura No Shiori"（桜の栞） & wishing foreigners to wear Kimono more.

AKB48, "Namida Surprise" （涙サプライズ）with Tip: Greek horoscope and Japanese zodiac.

AKB48,"Chance No Junban"（チャンスの順番）.

AKB48, "Manatsu No Sounds Good" （真夏のサウンドグッド）and TIPS Beware of your common clothes.

AKB48, ポニーテールとシュシュ"Ponytail To Chouchou" エブリデイカチューシャ"Everyday Kachusya.

AKB48,ヘビーローテーション "Heavy Rotation".

AKB48,君はメロディ "Kimi Wa Melody" 恋するフォーチュンクッキー "Koisuru Fortune cookie.

AKB48, 鈴懸の木の道で"Suzukake no ki no michi de".

AKB48, "Kibou Teki Refrain"（希望的リフレイン）.

AKB48, "Sakura No Kini Narou"（桜の木になろう）.

AKB48, "Love Trip".

AKB48, "Shiawase Wo Wakenasai".

Hikaru Utada（宇多田ヒカル）, "Goodbye Happiness" with a fuzzy Japanese pronunciation.

Tatsuro Yamashita, "Christmas Eve" Translation and Pronunciation.

Yuna Itou（伊藤 由奈）, "Endless Story" with fluffy Translations and Pronunciations.

Noriko Sakai（酒井法子）, "Active Heart"（アクティブハート）with Pronunciations and translations.

Miho Morikawa（森川美穂）, "Yasashiku Shinaide"（優しくしないで） with pronunciations and translations.

Miho Morikawa（森川 美穂）, "Bridge Kara Mita Yoake"（ブリッジから見た夜明け）.

Miho Morikawa（森川美穂）, "Kitto"（きっと）.

Miho Morikawa, "Kagayakitai", "Blue Water" and "Yes, I will".

Miho Morikawa, "Yasasikusinaide" and "Akai Namida".

Miho Morikawa "By Yourself" and "Kimiga Kimide Irutameni".

Mr.Children, "Hanabi" （花火）with Japanese pronunciations and translations.

Mr.Children, "Esora","Hanabi"and more.

NMay'n & Megumi Nakajima, "Sayonara No Tsubasa"（サヨナラノツバサ） with Japanese pronuciations.

May'n and Megumi Nakajima（May'nと中島愛）, "Lion"（ライオン）.

May'n and Megumi Nakajima, "Sayonara No Tsubasa" and "Nyan Nyan medley" Cool JPOP!!.

Akina Nakamori（中森 明菜）, "Second Love" with Japanese pronunciations.

Akina Nakamori（中森 明菜）, "Twilight"（トワイライト）and Why Japanese never say "I Love You"??.

"Ellegarden", "Salamander" with "AIR SHOW" on 3rd November 2018.

Koh Shibasaki（柴咲コウ）, "Tsuki No Shizuku"（月のしずく）with the explanation of "Obon Holidays".

Yuzu（ゆず）, Niji （虹=Rainbow）and Let's live positively...って事.

JUJU, "Mata Ashita"（また明日) with Translations and Pronunciations.

JUJU, "Sign" with pronunciations and translations.

JUJU, "Tadaima"（ただいま）& Tip: What is the best reply to "I'm home"??.

JUJU（ジュジュ）, "Arigatou"（ありがとう）about a bit of Jan Ken（じゃんけん）.

JUJU, ”Mata Ashita” and "Sign".

Seiko Mazda（松田聖子）, "Ruriiro No Chikyu"（瑠璃色の地球）.

Circus, "American Feeling" with "Do Japanese people hate Americans??".

Minako Honda（本田美奈子）, "Tsubasa"（つばさ）and "One Way Generation".

Juria Mazda（松田 樹利亜）, "Damatte Naide"（だまって ないで）.

Hysteric Blue, "Naze"(なぜ） and about 18th June Osaka earthquake.

Hysteric Blue, "春~Spring~" with a bit of Yokohama city guide!!.

Kyary Pamyu Pamyu, "Kira Kira Killer" with pronunciation & translation.

Kyary Pamyu Pamyu（きゃりーぱみゅぱみゅ）, "Fashion Monster"（ファッションモンスター）.

Kyary Pamyu Pamyu "Kira Kira Killer" Super adorable J-POP.

Aya Matsuura（松浦 亜弥）, "Momoiro Kataomoi"（桃色 片思い）.

Aya Matsuura（松浦 亜弥）, "Yeah! Meccha Holiday"（Yeah！めっちゃホリデイ）.

ZARD (Izumi Sakai), "It's a boy".

Chisato Moritaka, "Kono Machi" and "17 sai".

Chisato Moritaka, "Watashi No Natsu" and "Watashi Ga Obasan Ni Nattemo".

Yuki Saito, "Kanasimiyo Konnichiwa" and "Sotsugyou".

Shoko Nakagawa(中川翔子),"Tamashii No Refrain"(魂のルフラン) with pronunciation.

Shoko Nakagawa and Yoko Takahashi, "Tamashii No Refrain" and "Zankoku Na Tenshi No Thesis".

Sugar, "Wedding Bell" "Sugar dream" and more.

★Japanese Wedding ceremony Musics.

Miho Fukuhara（福原美穂）, "Thank you" with Pronunciations and translations.

Mariko Nagai（永井真理子）, "Change" with Japanese pronunciations and translations.

AKB48, "Shiawase Wo Wakenasai".

Japanese style wedding party: Actual flow and the practice.

★Japanese Ballads.

Ayumi Hamasaki, "Key", "Fly High", "Love","Kanariya", "To Be" and more adorable songs.

Kahoru Kohiruimaki, "Ai Yo Kienaide".

Miho Fukuhara, "Thank you","Love"and more.

Misia, "Aitakute Ima" and "Everything".

Misia, "Hoshi No Furu Oka" and "Wasurenai Hibi".

Namie Amuro, "Hero" and "Can you celebrate?".

Naoko Kawai, "Half Moon Serenade", "Izayoi Monogatari" and "Smile for me".

Shoko Inoue, "Koi Ha Liberty", "Dousite Anata Ha Naitanndarou" and more.

★Rock and Techno "like" Musics（笑）.

Perfume, "Poly-rythme", "Spice", "Spending all my time", "Pick me up" and more.

Unicorn, "Daimeiwaku", "Hige To Boin",and "Subarashii Hibi".

Beverly, "I need your love".

Wagakki Band（和楽器バンド）, "Senbonzakura"（千本桜）and "Akatsuki No Ito"（暁の糸).

★Japanese Movie and TV drama.

"Kakegurui"(賭ケグルイ), the blast away Japanese TV drama!! （主演：浜辺美波）.

Haruka Fukuhara & Haruka Tomatsu, "It's Show Time" and TV drama "Koe girl".

TV drama"Kurage Hime" with Caffe Latte Funsui Kouen, "Go Sign Wa 1 Coin" & Beverly, "A New Day".>

"Furiko" The impressive Japanese Movie.

Seigi No Mikata, about TV Drama and Hatsune Okumura's "Tsuyogari Soleil".

Toki Wo Kakeru Shoujo,Japanese TV Drama and AKB48 "Love Trip".

★Japan Travel and Restaurant guide.

Ashiyaさん, a Russian girl's honest impressions about Japan.

Sabiki Fishing: a guide for your first attempt!!.

Tokyo One Day tour with a new American Friend with AKB48 Kimi Wa Melody!!.

Sushi Saito, thoroughly be honest, the perfect sincere attitude against for all customers!!.

Tokyo Transportation network guide.

★The essence of Japanese people (Culture).

"a KY person", Microaggression and Cross-cultural mismatch problems.

How to improve translations into your own language at our blog articles.

The awkward custom may affect with you when living in Japan for a long time..かもね？？.

Shou Ga Nai...しょうがない...Shikata Ga Nai.. but...まあ、いいかぁー なのです（笑）.

No meaning of imposing strong opinions to others in Japan...って何故？？.

The true impressions of about Japan.

What is the actual essences of Japanese people.

Geisha girls...Splendid Artists expressing Japanese prides.

5 important points to know, before come to Japan.

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Wow...I wrote crap long article again!!

Sorry guys...But I assure you that this article will help you to deal with Japanese even you are not living in Japan!!

I hope this article may help you to reconsider yourself!!

C-Ya!!






Pyonko & Mu from Tokyoでしたぁ～！！